A
long-awaited reunion:
Jorge Lugo returns from Iraq
By Tom Moore
The last thing Jorge
Lugo expected after nine months in Iraq and Kuwait
was a welcoming parade. But on the drive home from
the San Antonio International Airport, his wife Marisela
made a detour to the Travel Information Center outside
of town.
Gathered there on an overcast and windy late afternoon
were family and friends, keeping watch for his return.
His mother Gloria Lugo was anxious, anticipating the
reunion. But when Jorge and Marisela pulled into the
parking lot, she was occupied elsewhere, and didn't
see the well-wishers surge toward Jorge as he got
out of his vehicle. As people rushed by they called
to her, "He's here, he's here!" A moment
passed before the truth of those words struck. "He's
here?" she asked, then, "He's here!"
The small crowd parted, and Gloria Lugo met her son
in an embrace deferred since October 2002.
The homecoming would continue into the evening. Led
by the flashing lights of several Webb County Constable
squad cars, a convoy of family, friends, and members
of two local motorcycle groups escorted Lugo home.
A member of the 328PSB U.S. Army Reserve Unit in San
Antonio, Lugo, 29, was among a 20-member contingent
of personnel services troops sent to Kuwait and Iraq.
His responsibilities included troop accountability
in any given area of Iraq, updating identification
records and maintaining records of names and locations
and sending the information back to headquarters in
Kuwait. "We were constantly traveling,"
he said. "As far as we were concerned, we had
to move back and forth between different sites."
Lugo found his time in Iraq to be "an awesome
experience. I don't regret it at all, seeing another
culture." His experience with the Iraqi people
was more balanced. "Some of them really liked
you over there, and they'd wave at you," he said.
"Some of them really wanted you to get the hell
out of there, and they'd throw rocks at you."
A strong current of feeling in the United States regarding
the conflict was one of definite support for the troops,
while not necessarily agreeing with the war itself.
Lugo was aware of this while in Iraq. "Once in
a while we'd have access to TV and we would see news,
see the demonstrations," he said. "It was
upsetting to us. I guess maybe they don't understand.
We don't have a choice. We joined the military, and
now we have to do what they tell us. The majority
of the people I've talked to have given one hundred
percent support. And then some just say, 'We understand,
you're just doing your job.'"
Nevertheless, Lugo has re-enlisted for six more years.
"I'm planning on staying in until I retire,"
he said. "If it's something I don't agree with,
maybe I'll move on to something else." With the
present state of affairs in Iraq, however, did he
consider that he might be redeployed? "In our
debriefing at Ft. Sam Houston, that was the first
question that came up. It's possible. I'd go if I
had to. It would be hard leaving my family again,
but I'd be fine with it."
Gloria Lugo is simply pleased that her son is safe
and back home. "I'm feeling peace of mind,"
she said. "Let me say this: there was a knot
in the pit of my stomach, and now it's gone."
Last year she helped form the Laredo Family Support
Network for Laredoans with family members serving
abroad in the military. "It's given me a different
perspective," she said of her involvement with
the organization. "I don't feel as selfish --
that only I was going through this ordeal. I felt
great support for others going through the same situation.
I was so busy giving them support, it took my mind
off things."
Jorge Lugo has already noted the sharp contrast of
being back in Laredo, even if only for a short time.
"Everything's so complicated over here, having
to deal with so much over here -- family, friends,
job -- having to deal with so much in such a short
amount of time."
One such dilemma is his employment situation. Before
Iraq, Lugo was a Laredo-based territory manager with
Beaulieu of America, a carpet manufacturer out of
Dalton, Georgia. A week after he returned, he didn't
know if he would still have his job. "I'm guaranteed
my job back; according to the Soldiers/Sailors Act
of 1974, they're supposed to give me my job back.
They have to offer me the same thing, but it could
be in San Antonio, Houston, or out of state for that
matter." His position was filled when he left,
Lugo said, and the company is still processing the
paperwork to reinstate him. "I don't know what's
really going to happen."
Despite such developments, Lugo enjoyed his homecoming
celebration, though it was tempered by the realities
of a world he has perhaps only temporarily left behind.
"I figured it would be something real small.
Then I saw the squad cars. It was a real nice surprise.
I have a lot of friends who came back, and they had
done a lot more than I did, and they didn't get anything.
Just their family at the airport. I wish they would
have something like that for everybody."